You know what will just blow my mind? Aside from finding a man who isn’t selfish in the bedroom and is competent in giving a woman an orgasm… a man who will lean just a little towards me from across the table and asks me what my story is. A man who sincerely wants to know who I am and where I came from. A man who doesn’t just yap about himself or asks a question so I can hurry and answer so that they themselves can answer their own question. A man who doesn’t just jump up from the bed and think the party is over once they’ve gotten theirs. Cause baby I gave you yours now give me mine.